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Do you have pets in your home?

Started by Chris , author of Armyof5 12/11/2009 12:47:15 PM

I feel pets are such an awesome responsibility builder for kids. I know so many times mom ends up with all the work and the pet often ends up outside in the yard, because the kids lose interest due to the clean up, and work involved, and sometimes the pet ends up the subject of a rehoming add on Craig's list.

I know pets aren't for everyone, but I can't help but think "Awwww, that's so sad," when I see something for sale on ebay or a used materials board listed as "no pets in the home". I know there are allergies out there to deal with, but I decided I wanted to be a veterinarian when I was about 8 years old, and ended up with severe allergies (many things besides animals, but cats, horses, pigs and a couple of others were my animal allergies) by Jr High. I was still determined, even though I'd almost go into anaphylaxis around cats. I took shots for years and today I can work with the animals without much problem in the clinic, sometimes requiring a benadryl.  I don't think I'd survive without my horses, LOL.

I've had a cat in my home since my kids were born, because I was determined my children would not be allergic to animals. He knows to stay out of my room, and I believe my sensitivity has lessened throughout the years. I'm happy to say none of my kids are allergic to animals, and really haven't seen much allergy in them at all to anything, even though there's lots of allergies on both sides of the family.

I love it that my kids have come to the point that they feed and water and care for pretty much our whole ranch of animals daily. Our neighbor was so impressed that he hired my girls to come over daily and check on his ranch (he lives on the island and used to come once or twice throughout the week and most weekends, now only comes on the weekends) to check his minature cattle and donkey.

It's been fun for them to be able to bottle feed/hand feed orphaned animals, to raise and set free.

We love critters at our house- how about you??

 

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We do not have any pets.  My almost-6-year-old daughter is absolutely terrified of any animals, no matter what size!  A squirrel on the porch would cause her to scream, literally and refuse to go outside.  I have no idea what causes it, she's always been this way (she's not scared of spiders, though:-)  She has  improved some the past year or so.  Hopefully, after we move out of the house we are renting (no pets allowed), we will be able to consider a family pet...or maybe we'll start with a goldfish.

Reply by Tonya

author of Blessed at Home 12/11/2009 1:40:09 PM
We have two dogs, one cat, and an aquarium.  We love our pets!  And they do add so much to our family.  We have always had a pet in our home since the oldest was born.  My youngest was even bitten by a dog on the bridge of his nose when he was two, and he is still  fearless of all dogs.  We use to have two guinea pigs and a gecko, but unfortunately they died when the boys neglected them.  That was a lesson learned. 

Reply by Heather

author of Marine Corps Nomads 12/11/2009 2:07:20 PM
We currently only have a dog.  We had to give our guinea pig up for adoption when we learned that we were moving across country.  We had a HUGE aquarium at one point, but that was also given away before a move.  We've had rabbits, turtles, frogs, and lizards at various times as well.  We enjoy having pets, but we've made a decision that it may be best not to get any more until my husband retires from the military.  It's always hard to say goodbye to a pet even if it is going to another good home.

we have a cat who is inside/outside, 4 hens...who are outside!  Our newest addition is our labradoodle puppy, I've been resisting that level of ownership/responsibility for years but finally caved.  I can't believe how much I love her and how practically perfect she is.  She is 3/4 standard poodle and extremely smart.  She's inside, which was one of the things I was holding out on, if we were going to have a dog, it was going to have to be inside and be part of the family, not alone outside.  Dh finally saw the benefits in this and agreed.

we had 2 guinea pigs at one time...and I hated having them.  Loved them, but hated caring for them and the smell and mess.  Never again!  And the cost of bedding was not fun.

I fought my husband on this the first 7 or so years of our marriage.  Finally, I gave in and we got a dog.  We couldn't agree on the breed.  I wanted a golden retriever or cocker spaniel (which I had growing up).  He wanted a Schnauzer (sp?) that would live inside.  I said I couldnt' handle cleaning up after dog hair all the time.  So, somehow we settled on a Jack Russell Terrier.  I know, I know.  We had no idea how high energy they are at the time.  Poor, Jack.  He lives outside, even in winter, but we bring him in each night to sleep in his little bed in the laundry room.  Jack lives for the days we go to the ranch.  He's a great ranch dog.  He did almost die when he too eagerly tried to make friends with Jackson the donkey, but he lived and leanred from that.  Once we thought we'd lost him at the ranch.  I was secretly excited at the prospect of not having dog poop to clean up in the backyard, but my dad found him and helped him up the cliff.  I guess he's here to stay.  It's been 3 or 4 years now.  I did see a man walking an old Jack Russell in our neighborhood and I stopped him and asked if his dog was still hyper.  He said that his dog had not slowed down at all.  I feel lied to and deceived by that show Frasier.  That dog was always so calm.  I guess he was just playing a part like the rest of them.  Of course, our son Mr. Monk is not a good fit with a dog, but my husband had hoped having a dog would rid Monk of some of his Monkishness.  No such luck.  Our 3 yr old is TERRIFIED of all dogs as a result.  Our 1 yr old seems quite interested through the glass. 

Reply by prldnh

author of Obcessed with Animals 1/15/2010 1:44:00 AM
Oh yes, 2 cats, one dog, 4 turtles and tons of fishes

Blog pic: (want one?)

Reply by Kimberly

author of Raising Olives 1/15/2010 5:41:33 AM
We've had an assortment of pets since getting married.  Guinea pigs (that we bred and got to watch the babies be born), birds, fish, a baby squirrel (fell out of it's nest and we got up every hour to feed it with a dropper), rabbit and a dog.

We currently just have fish and a dog, but the children would like to add guinea pigs and birds.  We'll probably consider that after the baby is born.  I handle things much better when I'm not pregnant.

Reply by Tina

author of B 4 U Ask... 1/15/2010 9:01:05 AM
We have had an assortment of pets through the years, cats, dogs, guinea pigs, rabbits.  Right now we have one dog, a black lab that stays inside and a rabbit, inside also however I would love an outside cage for the rabbit.  I think having pets is a great responsibility teacher for kids, plus I love animals too.

I have always been a cat person.  We always had cats growing up.  In particular my mom was partial to Himalayans.  The have a wonderful disposition and are beautiful cats.  So, I followed suit.  We have a Himmie that we call Crazy Canadian Kramer, and we love  him to death.  

 
 
Kelly
 

Reply by Mirage

author of *Every~Precious~Joy* 1/18/2010 5:40:35 PM

We had 1 dog and 1 cat when our oldest (now nearly 3 1/2) was born. The cat was feral, I captured, tamed, and found homes for the litter and for some reason she's stuck with us. She's not very bright and as a result is hilarious to watch.

The dog was a 50-pound pit bull. She had health problems all her life but was the sweetest most gentle dog. She was such a good family dog. She was a horrible puppy though so I'm glad she was grown by the time we had kids! Lol! It took alot out of me to train her. She was like an angry 2 year old having a tantrum when she was a puppy. I felt like nothing I did made a difference. By the time she was 6 months I was so frustrated! I was praying in tears for wisdom to train her. Finally she started to settle down and became the best dog ever. Her name was Kady. She was amazing. So smart! So gentle with the babies! And having been born into a family that already contained an established dog and cat, my kids now adore all dogs and cats they meet. Our Kady got very sick last spring and had to be put down in May due to health problems. It is something that is very hard for all of us. My daughter was only 2 1/2 but she remembers Kady and asks about her often.

My husband was the one who had to put her down. He's had a very hard time with it I think. He doesn't want another dog. The wound is still too raw for him. I am not really ready either, but I think the kids need a dog. If we go too long without one they'll become afraid of dogs. The kids need a dog. It's good for them to have a dog. Dogs bring so much life into a home. Provided they are kept in the home. I don't think a dog kept outdoors does anyone any good at all, least of all the dog. Just my personal opinion.


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