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My Biggest Challenge as a Mother with young children-- keeping up with the clutter!

Started by Amy , author of The Idea Room - Inspiring Mothers, Women and Families 4/25/2011 11:30:10 PM

My Biggest Challenge as a young Mother with young kids is keeping up with the clutter.  I am able to get the house sparkly clean from top to bottom while the older kids are in school...but as soon as they get home, the house looks like a tornado hit...or 5 little tornadoes in the form of energetic kids.

And it seems like the hours from 4-8 pm are packed full of homework, practices, lessons, friends, dinner preparation and so forth.  So, my sparkly clean house becomes cluttered very quickly as we go from one activity to the next and the kids leave things out.

 

I have been really trying to discover ways to keep the house clean and clutter free mainly because I am the type of person that functions better when the area around me is conducive to peace and calm, not clutter and chaos.  I am a better mom when things are organized and in place.  Can anyone else relate?  So to be the best mom I can for my family I needed to find a way to tame the clutter.

Stay tuned next month when I will be sharing my Genius Tip on how I am trying to tame the clutter.  As I will be sharing ways I have been improving upon my biggest challenge!  

This post is being sponsored by Kenmore as part of their Biggest Challenge giveaway, where you can be entered to win the latest version of the new iPad2.  If you would like to enter, you can  'like' Kenmore on Facebook and then come back here and share YOUR biggest (enter your topic here) challenge with us below. 

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Reply by Kepa

author of 4LETA 4/27/2011 5:16:58 PM
I believe that my coming across this post of yours is something I NEEDED most especially right now. I've read most of the comments to your post, and I'm so glad that I'm not alone! I am a mother of 3 little girls, ages' 5, 4, and 3, and every single day is a challenge because no matter how hard I try to keep our home organized and clutter-free, my girls are either in the next room or right behind me just being the little tornadoes that they are. I would get to the point where I'd just say to myself, I can't keep up with my own kids. Just the other day, my girls were suppose to take a nap, I was in my room updating my blog and fell asleep. When I woke up and came out of my room, the whole time they did not take their nap. I entered their bedroom and saw the soil that they mixed with water and about 10 t-shirts all wet and laid on top along with their little teddy bears. The bathroom floor was wet with all the water they tried to carry into their bedroom. I didn't know where to start, I just needed to sit down and be calm before I came to clean all the mess including the clutter they left throughout the house. It's so hard. My mother tells me to just let the kids be kids and if they mess up the house, wait until the end of the day to clean it all up instead of my constantly cleaning whenever I see a mess and stressing over it all. But for me, I just can't stand being around all the clutter and mess, I feel so much better when everything is in its place, all organized and clean! =) I've been trying to search for tips on other mom's blogs for dealing with this challenge, so I hope to hear what tips/ideas you have, that will be great because I really need it. Thanks so much!

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Reply by Ashlee @ I'm Topsy Turvy

author of I'm Topsy Turvy 4/27/2011 6:04:27 PM
Worlds LONGEST answer: For me it's staying clutter free and clean. We're a family of 6 (soon to be 7) in a 900sq ft basement, 2 bedrooms one bath. We were just able to add a bedroom and office and kitchen which will help, but fitting all our stuff (our last house was 4000 sq ft) is always rough. Finding a place for everything and not letting it get cluttery is huge. It doesn't help that my husband is naturally the most cluttery person EVER, he leaves stuff EVERYWHERE, even if the place they belong is only a foot away. Grrrr! Anyway the biggest challenge is that I despise cleaning. I love laundry, dishes, cooking, baking and playing with my kids, I love doing the taxes, cutting hair, crafting, and sewing. I'm the handyman, I made my own fireplace mantel, fix anything that's broken, love working with tools. And my favorite thing to do is organize, alphabetize, color code, etc... But I hate, hate HATE cleaning (oh I do like sweeping). I like organizing my kids toys and clothes, but putting them away when they are a mess and all over the floor I just can't do it. So we tend to live with lots of clutter, lots of mess, lots of toys on the floor. I either need a maid or less stuff. Maybe both? and of course the biggest solution is if I could get the new bedroom we just inherited finished (the walls need to be repaired, the trim needs to go up, it needs carpet and paint!) my husband and I could move rooms, then we could separate the kids (girls room and boys room) and everything would have it's place. Extra space will make a HUGE difference in our lives!

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Reply by MaryAnna

author of This Mama Sews 4/28/2011 9:33:31 AM
My biggest challenge is dealing with more: more laundry, more dirty dishes, more toys, more clutter. And I feel like Sisyphus fighting these battles everyday. I feel like I'll never conquer Mount Washmore. I'll never see the kitchen without a dirty dish in the sink or on the countertop. I'll never have the floor spotless or the clutter and toys put away. But I can do good enough, knowing there's always going to be more!

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Reply by Kim

4/28/2011 10:05:26 AM
My biggest challenge seems to be keeping the dining room table cleaned off. We're always moving piles of school books, mail, laundry, you name it, over to the side so that we can eat at the table! It's frustrating, not to mention it makes the whole house look messy too.

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Reply by andrea

4/28/2011 11:55:48 AM
My biggest challenge is keeping up with normal day to day "chores". Once I fall behind even a little, I'm done. The clutter takes over and I become totally unmotivated and unproductive.

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Reply by Vanessa

4/28/2011 3:44:30 PM
My biggest challenge is feeling motivated to clean up the mess my kids have made. It's a vicious circle: I clean, they mess it up, I clean, they mess it up. I don't feel like I have enough energy to keep up with them, and my motivation level is very low. I wish I could tap into my kids energy so I could get it all done.

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Reply by Britanie

author of The Mitchell Family 4/28/2011 4:59:30 PM
My biggest challenge is finding time to do the things that I WANT to do, not just the things that HAVE to be done. I'd like to spend more time crafting, sewing, quilting, photography and scrapbooking but by the time I've finished my "must do" list the day is over and it's time to reboot and start again.

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Reply by Dominique

4/28/2011 8:22:29 PM
My biggest challenge is keeping all my paper work in order there never seems to be enough time to get it all done.Life does have many other big challenges with two small toddlers at home.I think clutter has taken over my office space and since it doesn't need fed, changed, or entertained it get the back burner.

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Reply by Angie

4/29/2011 2:13:07 PM

This biggest challenge is to find the balance between actively playing with my 3 kids, keeping the house picked up, and being my own individual.


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Reply by ELW

4/30/2011 1:04:52 PM

My biggest challenge at home is the pet hair on our hardwood floors.  My most difficult challenge however, is all the paperwork I have to handle at school.  It's drowning me.  


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