I don't use my children's real names out of respect for them. I chose to blog, not them. I know that anyone can find out our names and who we are if they really want to; I know that there is no such thing as true anonymity on the internet. However, by not identifying our family, it just makes it harder for people to find out who we are--basically, they have to resort to internet stalking/snooping. But, at any rate, I figure that, by not using my kids' names, the kids themselves can choose if they want to tell anyone that I've written about them.