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I'm Still Standing

Started by SITS Girls , author of The Secret to Success is Support 12/9/2011 3:00:10 AM

I am a product of the 1970s (born in 1968).

I realize that makes me incredibly old - strike that - vintage! to most of you reading this. But it also gives me an interesting perspective on children's health - both generally, and my own kids in particular.

It seems to me that children of the 70s grew up in one of two camps:

* Camp Hippie: these kids were raised by the Flower Power people who got really interested in vegetarianism, veganism, and healthier living generally.

* Camp TV Dinner: these kids were raised by moms who were dazzled by convenience food marketing.

I was over in Camp TV Dinner. That's not say that my mom didn't cook. She cooked a ton, actually. And everything she cooked from scratch was amazing and delicious and wonderful. But she definitely took advantage of the onslaught of processed food hitting the grocery stores.

TV dinners. Cheese in a can. Premade desserts with unrecognizable ingredients. Sugary cereal (my addiction to Count Chocula cereal is a story for another time). The list could go on, but I shudder.

In the last decade or two, we've all been educated on the dangers of preservatives, high fructose corn syrup, and the innumerable other unpronounceable-and-not-occurring-naturally ingredients that are really, really bad for our bodies. Where possible, I try to avoid the stuff. I'm not 100% clean, but where time permits, I'd much rather bake my kids a cake and know, even if it's got sugar in it, that it's sugar I can pronounce, then offer up a packaged sweet treat.

I think back to my own childhood, and while I had my fair share of healthy meals, you can bet that I was eating 2 or 3 times the bad stuff that my kids do.

And I'm still standing.

My mom also smoked during her pregnancy. And has every day since. I've never once even held a cigarette to my lips.

And I'm still standing.

We didn't wear seat belts and we didn't have car seats.

And I'm still standing.

We didn't use bike helmets, shin guards or elbow guards.

And I'm still standing.

We were turned outside at 8 a.m. every summer morning and played in the front yard, on a busy street, unsupervised, until the next mealtime.

And I'm still standing.

Do I advocate any of these practices? No. Each and every one is on my "don't do that" list. But I realize something else.

In 30 years, my daughter could be writing a post just like this one.

A post that details all of the horrible choices we made as a society in 2011, the health mistakes I made as a parent, to her and this generation of youngsters, and how we could have done so much better if only we had had more information.

We're improving every day, and hopefully, the tools and resources that are available to our kids once they become parents will be exponentially better then - just like what's available to us is exponentially better than it was in the 1970s.

So when I try to get all high and mighty about my parenting choices and kids' health, I just remember that something I'm doing right now is going to be called bad or ill-advised sometime down the road.

And hopefully, both of my kids will still be standing to point it out.

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Reply by Julie

author of Jewel's Arty Blog 12/9/2011 8:06:48 AM

I am from the 60s so am even older than you, and I take your point about there being too much "elf and safety" these days. I did some quite dangerous things when I was a kid, and copped for the odd broken bone, suspected concussion etc. but I am still alive and, as far as I know, in good nick.   I also wonder what things I'm doing wrong as a parent without knowing, and on that note, am now off to have a look at your contest. 


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Reply by Andi

author of Misadventures With Andi 12/9/2011 9:45:34 AM

1970 here and I was a TV dinner kid who turned out pretty darn good!  While I don't have kids my friends do and I wouldn't judge for a second!  The one thing I am amazed about is that my mom didn't have this medium of blogging to be connected and informed - we are so lucky these days!


Reply by SusanInTheBoonies

author of Wild Life in the Woods 12/9/2011 1:19:53 PM
Breast feed if you can, and spend time letting that baby know that YOU ARE THERE for that child, and that you cherish and love him/her.

Reply by Anne

12/9/2011 2:27:49 PM
Worry less and enjoy more. They grow up too fast. Also, keep them clean, but don't worry so much about germs.

Reply by Jennifer

author of Momma Made It Look Easy 12/9/2011 2:32:55 PM
Moderation. Cookies are okay, but they are a sometimes food.

Reply by Morgan

author of Snapshots 12/9/2011 2:58:34 PM
Having a routine ... letting them feel safe and secure by knowing what to expect each day. Routines at nap time, routines at mealtime and routines in personal hygiene all help kids develop healthy habits ... and it starts when they're babies!

Reply by Jodi

author of The Un-Soccer Mom 12/9/2011 2:59:01 PM
Keep it natural! And keep the sweets on the low down until their 1st bday party.

Reply by Sandra

12/9/2011 5:03:23 PM
There is nothing that can compare to a moms touch. You can calm a scared child. Comfort a child in pain and keep a child focused and positive all with a touch. I think it is better than any food or medicine out there. A comforting touch can encourage a child to do or be anything.

You ask specifically what is your favorite tip for raising a healthy baby and I would have to say that it would be breastfeed.  There is no better foundation you can give for your child's health.  I nursed all of my four children and I actually nursed one of them for three years!  Naturally that doesn't mean he was nursing all day...by that time, and much earlier, he was nursing at naptimes and bedtimes only.  Or when he was ill.  Which is another good reason to breastfeed because it does protect your child from illness but when they do get sick you have one very comforting, and healthy, thing you can do for them to keep them hydrated and help them to recover more quickly.


Reply by Barbie

author of My Freshly Brewed Life 12/10/2011 2:10:38 AM
Model healthy eating habits and curb sugar, maybe allow for special occasions.

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