I (try) to always have dinner for him ready when he gets home from work. Easier said than done because the twins go to bed right around the same time! I also stop whatever I'm doing and give him my full attention when he's talking to me so that he knows that he's important to me. I try to spend time with him in the evenings, even if there are a million other things I should be doing.

I try to remember the honey verses vinegar theory.  It works too! I say thank you a lot...for making me coffee, for letting me lay on the couch, for putting his stuff away. It lets him know he's appreciated.