We have just moved into a much smaller home. Downsizing now that the children are grown, graduated from college and in careers--in other words they have no plans to ever move back home, and we are very happy they are so settled as are they. I do love having a smaller home where I don't need a walkie talkie to find my husband. We are enjoying our "Cabin in the Big Woods on the Beach".
I am experiencing going from 5,000sq.ft. to 1200sq.ft. What to do with all the stuff!! Decluttering is a great thing to do, but it's not a quick process. I have an island in the kitchen that seems to be catching it all--all the junk including keys, mail, and spare loose change, all on the corner. The house has the great room design so this corner is visible all the time.
I love our new home, we are right on the water (Puget Sound) and we have a view from all the windows, but the smallness and trying to get rid of so much stuff is getting to me. My sister was here for 2 weeks helping me set up house, as she is very good at it and I am not.
I wish I had advice for you, but I look forward to what others have to say to solve the problem.
--Mari