I absolutely agree. The Freedom to make my own choices and not have to have a conference about it or check in with someone. I also love if on a Sunday I decided to stay in my PJs all day someone does not ask "are you getting dressed today?".

I also like that I can make my own plans and choices. When I plan for 10 yrs ahead I don't feel like I am in a holding pattern like I was when I was regularly dating. I can just plan away. If someone eventually joins the crazy ride fine but this train is moving and it ain't stopping.