yeah, I've been there before.. I think both of you should talk to each others to solve your problems. 

Communication between both of you is the very important.

Don't leave your problem half away, and don't run away from it. Face it and find the best solution for both of you.

Just remember that when you think it's the best way for both of you, ask you self, is it the right way in God's eyes.

There will always be problems in life, after all life is all about solving problems from birth to the grave.  You need to sit down with the love of your and have a heart to heart talk. no matter how big the cloth the problem puts on.