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dealing with baby/toddler tantrums

Started by adriel , author of the mommyhood memos 1/21/2011 12:02:35 AM

 

 

Well friends, we're fast approaching Levi's first birthday... and I'm sad to say that the tantrums have already gone up a few notches! It's infuriating and hilarious and cute and frustrating all at the same time. (I know, I know... one of the perks of motherhood!)

But seriously, what are some things you've learned in dealing with tantrums while your child is still very young and can't even speak yet?

And have you found any good online resources or read any good books on the subject?

I know there's a WIDE range of parenting philosophies on stuff like this... but I want to throw it out there and see what things you throw back my way. :)

Of course I will filter as any good mama should... but I need a few starting points!

thanks in advance xx

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I have no real advice because my daughter is going to be 2 in April and we are experience full blown tantrums so you're not alone.  I agree, they can be funny and frustrating at the same time!

I've tried ignoring her and that sometimes works.  Even when I don't think she understands, I try to talk calmly to her (which is tough).  I also try to redirect her attention to something else, especially when we're in public.  Finally, I just started to use short time outs.  I make her sit on the couch until she calms down.  All of these work sometimes but I have no idea if I'm doing the right thing or not since the tantrums continue!

I can't wait to hear some of the advice!


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author of the mommyhood memos 1/31/2011 6:39:26 AM

It's hard isn't it? Because my son can't yet speak (just turned one two days ago!) he throws things when he's upset. For example at mealtime... "I'm done with my drink" = throwing the sippy... "I don't want anymore/I don't like it" = throwing/shoving the plate... "don't look at me that way" = throwing whatever he can get his hands on first. And he does this with a scowl on his face and sometimes an angry cry too.

If you happen to be holding him (or in the midst of picking him up) when he's not happy well, then comes the back arching! Oh, look out!

It's really frustrating! At the moment it's really coming out at mealtimes. I want to just finish the meal and take him away... and yet I'm worried he won't get enough to eat. :(

I know he must be terribly frustrated not being able to communicate better, and I feel for him and want to help him...BUT he also needs to learn to control himself a little... right??? aaak! This is hard to know what to do!


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Kasey said ...
I have no real advice because my daughter is going to be 2 in April and we are experience full blown tantrums so you're not alone.  I agree, they can be funny and frustrating at the same time!

 


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