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What was the Most Difficult Part of Your Pregnancy? Here's mine...

Started by Melissa , author of The Life of a Sippy Cup Mom! 10/12/2011 9:00:11 AM

 

Becoming pregnant really starts preparing you for being a Mom. There's the marking of monthly milestones, the constant fear of something going wrong and of course the non-stop worrying.

The beginning of my pregnancy was relatively easy. We had monthly check ups where everything was progressing normal. My blood pressure was normal and I passed the Glucose Test with flying colors. I still worked my retail job, where I stood on my feet for 8 hours a day.

One day, I started getting a bad pain in my ribcage and an intense headache. I laid down and it went away. When I mentioned it to my OB/GYN, she told me that it was most likely a gallbladder attack. Since I was pregnant, I was advised that we would keep an eye on it and to drink plenty of water.

I was now in my 7th month of pregnancy and we started going to birthing classes to prepare for our son's birth. Being a first time parent, I had no idea what to expect going into labor would feel like. The instructor told us what to expect contractions to feel like and how we should lay on the couch if we don't feel the baby moving.

That night when we got home from our birthing class I went to sleep like it was any other night. A few hours in, I woke up dripping sweat and in the worst pain I have ever been in. I made it to the bathroom where I collapsed on the floor. I was short of breath with an intense pain radiating over my chest and down the side of my body.  Crying and screaming, I was sure I had to be going into labor. Why else would I be in this much pain?

I made it out of the bathroom and on to my couch. Realizing that this was most likely a gallbladder attack and not labor, I took some Tylenol, laid on my side and tried to calm my breathing down. My husband put a call into my doctor. Eventually, I was feeling back to normal. Shockingly, while I thought that whole episode had lasted hours, it only lasted about 20 minutes.

When I went in to see my doctor the next day, I had an ultrasound done. The test showed that my gallbladder was very inflamed and full of gallstones. Since performing gallbladder surgery on pregnant women can be risky, my doctor told me that after I delivered Hayden we would have to do surgery. I was given pain medicine to use sparingly and to watch my diet and to continue to drink plenty of water.

Even with watching my diet, I continued to have gallbladder attacks the rest of my pregnancy. Add in a diagnosis of sciatica and I had to go on leave and spend the rest of my days at home.

Having frequent gallbladder attacks was definitely the most difficult part of my pregnancy. I was finally able to have my gallbladder removed 4 months after my son was born. In addition to the attacks I had while pregnant, I continued to have them afterward. If anyone asks, I'll tell them. Having a gallbladder attack is so much more painful than giving birth. I would much rather give birth a dozen times than have another gallbladder attack!

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Reply by queentob

author of Everything's Abuzz — 10/12/2011 6:57:24 PM
wow, so glad you made it through such an ordeal. sounds terribly painful! I had a rough first pregnancy, spent every night on the bathroom floor, couldn't keep any food in, had trouble with smells, textures and of course gaining weight. after zofran, i was able to make it through my day at work and then spent every night, as well as morning sicker than I ever thought i could be. but i made it through and gave birth right on time to a VERY healthy baby boy. i was rewarded for my sickness for having a less than 3 hour labor experience!

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Reply by Amanda

author of The Educators' Spin On It 10/12/2011 7:18:25 PM
Wow - sounds difficult. Mine was just managing the mood swings

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Reply by Kerri

10/12/2011 9:17:20 PM
My biggest challenge was dehydration and getting sick. I;m glad to hear you are feeling better after such a horrible feeling during a happy time.

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Reply by Mary

10/12/2011 10:20:15 PM
At 20 weeks pregnant, I went to the OB/GYN to find out the sex of my baby. This was the moment I had waited for the entire pregnancy! Instead I got a scared look by the ultrasound tech and she went to get a coworker. Neither would say what they saw. I then met with the Doctor, who explained I needed to start seeing a specialist because my baby would be born with clubfeet, possible Downs, and a list of other things. They then talked about my options. I chose to pray like never before. At 8 months I delivered a beautiful, healthy baby girl that only had clubfoot. We are now halfway through the 4 year treatment to correct this. After what seemed like the worst thing in the world, we could not have asked for a better baby!

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Reply by Brooke

10/13/2011 1:00:44 PM
The most difficult part for me was after I found out I was pregnant I went in for the first ultrasound and only saw the sac, no baby or heart beat. After that they tested my HCG levels, I did the first test on a thursday, and was supposed to do the second test on a saturday. The place i went to get my blood drawn at is literately 3 doors down from my dr's office, they didn't have/lost my paperwork. So I had to wait the entire weekend(still wondering if i was pregnant or not), I went in on the following monday to finally get my blood drawn and didn't get the results back until tuesday evening. My dr calls to tell me that my "HCG levels went up but not as much as she would have liked, but we will do an ultrasound in a cpl days." It was easily one of the most difficult weeks of the pregnancy waiting an entire week wondering if you are pregnant or not. Thankfully, we went in on that thursday and the ultrasound showed our baby and heartbeat. We are due Nov 30! :)

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Reply by Amy

author of Marvelous Mommy 10/13/2011 9:43:16 PM
Haha the non-stop worrying is so true! My sister also had gallbladder attacks during one of her pregnancies. I'm so thankful I didn't get them with either of mine!

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Reply by Shannon

10/13/2011 11:10:26 PM
My 3rd pregnancy ended in a miscarriage. It took me months to recover. I was scared the whole time when I was pregnant the 4th and 5th time. Luckily, due to Heparin shots and lots of prayers, I was able to deliver 2 healthy baby girls after my miscarriage.

For the first one it was I was tired. For the third one it was that I was tired and had two kids to take care of so I could never get enough rest. Plus I was lugging sports chairs and coolers in the summer and 7 months pregnant.

I am with you on the worry. I didn't get too far into my third before having my sweet boy.. But I was swollen and exhausted for the time I had!

My pregnancies were pretty easy, except for the daily blood thinner injections that I had to have for a clotting disorder. The best part, though, had to be feeling my babies move around inside of me. That is something only a mother can experience, and it is a feeling like no other!

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