I loved your post, Esther.
I have my feet in two camps - we partially home-school with the help of a private classical education school.
It is weird, but works for us.
The boys go to school 2 days a week, we homeschool two days a week and they do electives one day.
I don't think I could do it full time so it really is good for us. The boys don't know any different - the thought of 5 day a week school astounds them.