Oh yeah! It was full on sarcasm and personality! I was
like "Where is THIS guy every week?!?" It was all he could do to
not full on make fun of her, and I seriously just kept wishing he
would!
I think that's part of the problem. My guess is that Ben is a
pretty goofy/sarcastic guy in real life, but that for the purpose
of this show - he's trying to play off this serious and
introspective personality. It's just not working, and it's coming
off as really really fake. And boring. I just don't think he's
being himself at all.
Or at least, I hope that's the case. Because if he is really
that emotionless most of the time - holy crap, I feel sorry for
anyone who actually ends up with him!