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Endo advice

Started by Casey , author of Walking The Beaton Path 1/11/2012 1:05:15 AM

So not 1 but 2 of my friends have been diagnosed with endo in the past month. One will be have a hysterectomy in the fext few weeks.

 

I was hoping that some of you ladies who have experience with this disease would have some advice that I could pass on to them.

What do you wish you had known about life with endo at the beginning?

What treatments or pain management techniques work best?

Things like that. I don't have any experience myself, but would like to encourage them.

 

Thanks

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 Wait wait wait... she was just diagnosed a month ago, and they are now scheduling a hyst? I obviously don't know her medical records, but NOOOOOOOOO!!!! That is a HUGE deal and a BIG surgery that will have an effect on her the REST of her life. That should be the very last resort, after every other option has been explored!

I am hoping there is a very good reason she is getting a hyst that has more to do with something other than just endo, but if not... please encourage her to seek a second opinion!!

You're in Canada, right Casey? I'm not sure what the typical treatment protocols are there, or what options there are. So often it is really individualized. I will say that I would encourage most women to REALLY do their research before submitting to Lupron as well. It's a tough drug, and while most gyns will recommend it, most of the top specialists won't.

Do you know how advanced their cases are?

I can honestly say that I wished in the beginning, I had been more willing to ask questions and seek alternatives. My first year of treatment was the hardest by far, because my doctors were just pumping me full of drugs without a whole lot of concern for the side effects those drugs had with them. My best pain relief tools have actually been acupuncture and myofascial release. Both have made a huge difference for me. I would also encourage them to look into the endo diet. I haven't personally had a ton of luck with it, but I have friends who swear by it. And then beyond that... just research research research.

Oh, and pycnogenol! It's pine tree bark extract, which sounds weird, but preliminary studies have shown it to have similar results to Lupron without the side effects. Patients have to be on it longer, but the benefits are more long lasting as well. And it's a supplement, vs a drug. I take 100mg/day.

I've got to head to bed, but I'm going to try to pop back in tomorrow. Sorry if I got too intense, I just... I can't wrap my head around a hyst after a preliminary diagnosis for endo. If that is really the only reason they are doing it, I guarantee there are better options out there. She definitely needs a second opinion. And a third and a fourth for that matter! My surgeon was one of the top in the country, and he said I was one of the most aggressive cases he has ever seen, and even with me - he has never recommended a hyst (my gynocologist did though, which is why I moved on... she was actually the second doctor to want me to have a hyst before i found my surgeon now). It is NOT the answer for endo though, and there are a lot of women who have hysts and continue to have problems from endo anyway. Like I said, it should be the LAST resort. My heart is just breaking thinking of a woman having a hyst who doesn't actually need one. :(


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Casey said ...
So not 1 but 2 of my friends have been diagnosed with endo in the past month. One will be have a hysterectomy in the fext few weeks.


 Initially there was some talk of it being cancer that was causing her intense pain so we had talked about recovery and implications of a hysterectomy a bit. She is in her mid 30's and has no plans for more kids (husband had the snip). They did exploratory surgery today and apparently her endo is pretty severe. I think in her head she was already prepared for that to be the outcome and that's why she agreed so readily...and perhaps they won't do it after all, you know.

I also think that she just doesn't want to fight it right now. Her mom is undergoing her 2nd round of treatment for stomach cancer and her dad is on end of life care for pancreatic cancer, her FIL just recently died of cancer and their son was just diagnosed with Asperger's...I know a hyst isn't a cure-all but I think she just wants whatever will get her the best results as quickly as possible.

My other friend is in her 20's, married, no kids..

I will certainly pass on all the info to them both.

Thanks

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I've got to head to bed, but I'm going to try to pop back in tomorrow. Sorry if I got too intense, I just... I can't wrap my head around a hyst after a preliminary diagnosis for endo. If that is really the only reason they are doing it, I guarantee there are better options out there. She definitely needs a second opinion. And a third and a fourth for that matter! My surgeon was one of the top in the country, and he said I was one of the most aggressive cases he has ever seen, and even with me - he has never recommended a hyst (my gynocologist did though, which is why I moved on... she was actually the second doctor to want me to have a hyst before i found my surgeon now). It is NOT the answer for endo though, and there are a lot of women who have hysts and continue to have problems from endo anyway. Like I said, it should be the LAST resort. My heart is just breaking thinking of a woman having a hyst who doesn't actually need one. :(


Reply by Gayle

1/11/2012 2:21:23 AM

Everything that SIF said..!

A hyst is NOT a cure for endo, and it is a massive procedure to be considering.  

Like a large number of ladies in this community, I am an endo girl.. I've had the laps, the lasering, the hideous hormone therapies.... 

I also have a very good friend who, about 15 years ago had a medically recommended hyst to 'cure' her endo.   Like has occurred for many other women, her endo came back, big bad and ugly.  Please don't let anyone tell your friend that a hyst will 'cure' her.    

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S.I.F. said ...
 Wait wait wait... she was just diagnosed a month ago, and they are now scheduling a hyst? I obviously don't know her medical records, but NOOOOOOOOO!!!! That is a HUGE deal and a BIG surgery that will have an effect on her the REST of her life. That should be the very last resort, after every other option has been explored!


 That is really hard. They initially told me mine might be cancer too. In fact, my first doctor told me I would need a hyst before ever even having an official diagnosis... which is when I moved on to my next doctor.

I would just encourage her to really research the ramifications of a hysterectomy. I understand her reasonings for just wanting to do it, but... it can be really hard on the body.

They are both definitely in my thoughts.


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Casey said ...
 Initially there was some talk of it being cancer that was causing her intense pain so we had talked about recovery and implications of a hysterectomy a bit. She is in her mid 30's and has no plans for more kids (husband had the snip). They did exploratory surgery today and apparently her endo is pretty severe. I think in her head she was already prepared for that to be the outcome and that's why she agreed so readily...and perhaps they won't do it after all, you know.


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