Amy, I was reading your post and it totally reminded me of my own situation a couple of years ago.  I noticed aunt flo was getting shorter and lighter and coming sooner and sooner every month.  Come to find out, I had low progesterone!  They told me after I got those results that it would be impossible to get pregnant with numbers as low as mine.  This was after 8 months of trying. I was angry, confused, upset, you name it, I had that emotion.  However, that very next week, I got a postive test!  So I immediately went to the Dr and they started giving me weekly shots of progesterone in my butt for the next 8 weeks.  Now I have a happy, healthy 19 month old boy.  Most Dr. won't even have you come in till you have been trying for 6 months but if you are noticing a difference in your cycle, I would make an appointment right away.  You don't even need to tell them you are trying for a baby.  Just tell them you are noticing your cycle is getting shorter and shorter and have them do some tests.  Good luck!

Angie

Hi Aimee,

I too had some problems getting pregnant, I thought just because I wanted another baby that it should be that easy. lol! Well I have always had 28 day cycles no problems then all of a sudden they started getting screwed up, one I was late by like 10 days(I think I tested everyday)  and then after that they got shorter and shorter, finally after taking tests and getting negatives I was completely disappointed. Then one morning I woke up early before my husband and took the test I thought for sure it would be negative and to my amazement I got a postive, that was after 5 months of trying. So I am sure that your time will come just be patient and keep trying it will happen. Good luck!!

Sarah

Yes, I am also trying with no luck. I wanted to give my husband the perfect Christmas present (positive pregnancy test) but like you was left with a present for myself. My husband and I lost our baby at 14 weeks (I thought I was 17 weeks so was in complete shock) in Feb. 2009, we started trying again in May and still have had no luck.  Every month is an emotional rollar coaster filled with hope, disappointment, and remembering the baby I lost.  I just keep praying that God knows when the perfect timing is and trusting He will provide.

Praying for you!

I am not trying to get pregnant now but I have some advice. My first happened within the first try. My second I struggled to get preggers for 18 months with 1 loss! I went to the doctor and they said I had hypothyroidism which makes it really hard to get pregnant and bigger chances for loss. Well I was at the 18 month of trying and someone once told me not to stress out over it. (Which I was. It was devistating getting negatives month after month!) That last month I joined a yoga class! I didn't talk to anyone about how I wasn't getting preggers and how depressed I was. I didn't think about it at all! (Well tried not to anyways!) Didn't talk to my husband about it. We tried making doing the deed fun and not a chore. With everything that was against me I got preggers that month!! Now I have a healthy 3 yr old. So we wanted a third. I still have tons against me to not getting preggers again. Well again I didn't think about it. Thought if it happened it happened and 2 months of trying I got preggers. I now have a 2 month old!!

To everyone... Try not to think about it. Try not to stress over it. (Easier said then done!) Exercise and try to make doing the deed fun!! I wish everyone the Best of Luck!!