You are so sweet! :-)
Quite honestly, I don't have any secrets on how I manage it all. I recently took a 1-2 month break from blogging, only posting here and there, and needed it to refuel my think-tank and help me reassess my goals. Encourage everyone to do it if they feel some distance will help them stay passionate about things.
In my "professional career" besides blogging, I am a helper, a facilitator, and a connector. Therefore, it feels only natural for me to act like that in social media, hence www.BlogConferenceNewbie.com. I use various social media outlets to help me keep track of the newest of news and other contacts in social media. It CAN be a lot of work, but I just try to maximize the time I do have, even if it's 5 minutes here and there.
I found blogging was taking too much time away from my kids, which is one of the reasons I pulled back for a bit. But now I have managed to make blogging fit back into MY life rather than the other way around.
But I open this up to all of you....how do you balance it all?!