we are kinda stuck...we own a house in another state that we can't live in. We never should have been given the loan in the first place we found out later on. We are living with my inlaws because our renters pay when they feel like it.
Now since it is a rental they will lower our rate but only to 5.3 from 6.3. So it does make it better but not a ton.
Plus if we sell it then we have not way to pay off the rest of the mortgage so that isn't a choice either.
We have paid of thousands in CC debt in the last year and are now working on our car. Then when those are paid we can once again afford to live on our loan with 2 house payments.