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Meaningful Moments

Started by Kat , author of Mama's Losin' It! 2/7/2012 2:00:10 AM

I know that being Mom means I need to carefully guide my little chickadees through life safely. I'm the person they go to for advice and encouragement and fun. Right now they prefer me above all people.

I know this.

I also know that it won't always be this way. They will grow up and bring new friends and boyfriends and girlfriends into their inner circles and they will prefer their company. They are not going to want me to know their secrets and I might not want to know what kind of fun they're having.

I know this.

The most meaningful moment I've had this year happened when after ignoring my pleas to sit still in a dressing room, I really stopped to see them. Together. In all their squirminess...cracking each other up.

It was in that moment I recognized the friendship they are building with each other is the foundation of something special they'll carry with them forever. When I'm no longer the person they go to for advice and encouragement and fun...they will have each other.

I love this.

And you know what? One day they will have children and they will freak out and they will all come running back to me. I will regain my position as the person they go to for advice and encouragement and fun.

I will clap my hands and scream, "I knew you would come back to me!!" ...another meaningful moment I look forward to having.

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finding sweet Francine's face on the 'My family Found Me Page' at reece's rainbow!hugs from heaven right there! that picture of you is stunning! xxx

Reply by Bailey

author of The Flores Garden 2/7/2012 5:33:56 AM
Our family being faced with foreclosure on our home. It sounds strange that that would be my most meaningful moment but it is. It has brought my husband and me so much closer. It has made me appreciate the smallest of moments with our two precious babies. It's made me aware of what really matters in life. It has made me a better and stronger wife, mother, and woman.

Reply by k

2/7/2012 6:08:32 AM
I did the same thing to my mom...it was until I was married did I come running back and realize how she really did know it all! Now my 17year old looks at me like I'm an idiot can't wait until she comes running back!

They will come running back to you much sooner than when they have their own kids. No matter how much they give us little pushes away, they come back at all the right times because we give them what they need... Unconditional Love and support. Sweet post.


Reply by May

author of Achieving Clarity 2/7/2012 10:17:51 AM
I had always wondered why another mother had continued to have a house full of teenagers even after she was busy caring for her husband who developed Alzheimer's. There were others of us who could have hosted but she resisted that change. At the funeral we were talking about what great kids we had. This serene look crossed her face as she spoke of the support network her son would have to help him with his grieving. At that moment I realized she had been encouraging him to build the strong friendships that would sustain him. No matter how difficult it had to be for her she did it for him. The depth of her mother love touched me to the core.

Reply by Lisa

2/7/2012 10:19:30 AM
Sitting at my oldest son's basketball game and his little brother coming up next to me and saying 'That's my big brother' and having the biggest smile on his face. They may not always get along, but with that one moment I knew that they will always be there for each other.

Reply by Tiffany

2/7/2012 12:28:01 PM
Last year was one of beauty and heartache, and I'm happy to announce that we survived. After getting pregnant unexpectedly right before our May wedding, my husband and I were elated. The day before the ceremony, we found out our single, healthy baby was actually a very, very sick pair of twins-- identical twins with identical heart failures. They passed the week after our "honeymoon," and I went in for an aggressive surgery. The most memorable moment of the year was sitting in the bed afterwards, sore and healing at home, with my 3 year old on one side and my husband on the other. My husband turned to me and said, "We're going to be okay."

Sometimes I think I am at my wits end with my 15 year old daughter and I just want to cry. The attitude sometimes is just...UGH! And then she leaves a message like this on Facebook 'truth is?you?re always there for me mom?you?ve helped me through thick and thin and you always comfort me when i need someone?i can always talk to you and im so glad i can call you mom?love you mommy =)'and my heart just melts and I remember that she isn't going to be 15 forever and I will always LOVE her, attitude and all!! This might seem silly to some, but it was VERY meaningful to me!!

The moment my son let go of my hand and entered into his first day of preschool. I knew this was the first of many "letting go, and letting grow" moments. I treasured the conversation we had after when I picked him up. I knew that moment that no matter how far he goes he will always come back to me and communicate all his feelings. :)

Reply by Susan

2/7/2012 12:50:47 PM
I've been in my step-kids life since they were 14 & 13. I've always been the "fun" one, but the "mean" one. The Boy, now age 16, has never showed me any kind of affection. Last week we were all sitting around..the 17 yr old (daughter) was going on about her crush of the week. We were having a good laugh, but then it was time for them to go home. I was on my computer (probably reading this blog) when The Boy leaned down, gave me a hug, kissed my cheek & told me he loved me. That was the first time in 3 yrs he had uttered those words to me. My heart sang! I don't know what changed in him, but I'm glad it did.

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