Hi Mary - welcome to the BlogFrog and congrats on your community! I remember reading your Drowning post months ago and being so moved by the courage, depth, and self-awareness it must have taken to even articulate what it is like to lose a child. Your post made it perfectly clear to me what I'd do if one of my friends, family, or anyone I knew lost a loved one and needed help. I would respond as though they were drowning and I'd do my best to show up for them and never assume that they had enough support. Thanks for sharing your story and helping us all be better people to each other.