Hmmm... Well I like your blog.
In general, too many flashy ads bug me. I am easily distracted and don't have alot of time at one sitting to read so if I'm spending all my time distracted by various large and animated ads then I don't get to read the actual post which irritates me. I do like to look at the ads- after I've read the post and I enjoy looking at smaller ads with nice soft colors and pretty graphics. The ones that blink and flash and are animated just draaaaaaag my dinosaur of a computer down to snail pace and distract me when I'm reading. Sometimes my computer freezes or overheats and won't turn back on.
I like it when people have a playlist so I can hear what music inspires them... BUT I like it to be off and I have to manually push play because if it's automatically on then it takes for-ev-er for the page to load and I have to go do other things while I wait. Or sometimes it freezes my computer or overheats it and it has to be rebooted which takes 10 minuites and by then it's time to get off the computer and chase kids. Worst case my comp won't turn back on at all and I have to wait for it to be over it's computer PMS and want to turn on, which could take days.
I like pretty colors and fonts (which could probably be guessed after a trip to my blog... Lol!) but the important part is the content, not how it's decorated. The most important part is what you're blogging about, not whether you have a big banner or popular categories or fancy buttons that all match and coordinate with your wallpaper or what. :)