I would most definitely say something, being my place or not. No one deserves to be talked to that way,
especially a child. I wouldn't be rude about it, just point out there are better ways to communicate.
 
I'm sure she won't like my advice, but maybe it will hit her later. Sometimes it takes my husband to say something before I realize what I'm doing, whether it be my tone of voice, or the words that come out of my mouth. I'm not grateful at that moment, but it does make me stop and think. For that, I think its worth saying something.
 
That is just my thought, I know others will strongly disagree.
 
Drea