One thing that makes it easier for me to get rid of things is
that I have no one to leave my stuff to when I am gone. I have one
son and one stepson. Neither one of them will want my things so
they will end up thrown out in the garbage. I saw that happen when
my MIL died. Her stuff was gone through by my FIL, BIL and SIL.
They tried to sell stuff and found that nothing is worth anything
anymore. She had beautiful things but nobody wanted them.
My father gave my mother's stuff to me and I held it as long as
I could. But I really NEED the space and those items are not my
mother. I have letters and photographs from her and I will not be
getting rid of them. She had lots of photographs from the
1930-1950s. Of people I did not know or ever heard of. People that
passed through her life. I actually sold a lot of those vintage b
& w photos on eBay for $6.99 each! Some for more. Who would
think there was a big market for that stuff? I figured she'd like
it to know I sold them to collectors. So they live on.